Remembering the coldest day ever…

It is frickin’ cold. Not quite as cold as a couple of weeks ago, but cold none the less. I could kiss the person who invented heated seats. They sure are nice before the car gets warm, which can take a few miles when it’s 8 below.

Anyway, my post isn’t about the wonderful heated car seats, it’s about the last time I suffered through frigid temps, the coldest temps I can ever recall.

It was about this time of year, late January, in 1993. Phil was transferred to Tennessee a few months earlier and the kids and I stayed in Maine until the house sold and the semester ended.

I don’t recall the exact date we moved, sometime around January 25, 1993, because I remember letting Becky pick out a birthday cake at Kroger in Tennessee (on Jan 28) because the baking dishes were packed. It was the first store-bought birthday cake she ever had. (As a side note, we have a warm spell almost every year around her birthday. Obviously not this year!)

We had no snow until after Christmas (just like this year!), then it snowed a little bit every day. Chris kept a very large area shoveled (we didn’t have a snowblower back then), although he wasn’t too good at keeping the end of the driveway clear.

By moving day, we had piles of snow everywhere. The mover wasn’t happy when he saw the piles beside the driveway, but he was able to plow through it and had lots of room to turn the rig around in the area Chris kept shoveled.

When the packers arrived it was near zero for the daytime highs. It wasn’t too bad – they were in and out but we could keep the doors closed. (Packers pack everything; we moved a box of rocks and several radiator coolant bottles full of water.)

The next morning the movers came to load the truck. It was 40 below overnight, warming to a tropical 20 below at midday. I took the kids to school and my poor Aerostar van didn’t want to go; oh how I wished for an engine block heater. (It sounded like it wished it had an engine block heater too. :)) The movers had the doors blocked open all day. I wore a coat and gloves in the house and was still cold. I turned the thermostat down to conserve oil and we still blew through close to 100 gallons that day and they only had the van half loaded.  It was frigid the second day they loaded the van too and the furnace sucked down more oil, they finished up late afternoon and hit the road. The kids and I spent the night in a local hotel then headed south.

When the van arrived with our possessions, the first thing off the truck were the bicycles. We had a huge paved parking area behind the garage for the kids to ride on; they thought it was so cool that they could ride bikes in January. That was a new experience for them as we moved to Maine when Chris was 6 and stayed for 10 years.

Footnote: The house sale, which was supposed to close the day after we vacated, was delayed. We were told it was a temporary problem and the sale was expected to finalize the next week so we didn’t drain the pipes and winterize the house when we left. The sale fell through a couple of days after we left, but before it could be winterized the area had a power outage that lasted several hours when daytime high was still well below zero. Every cast iron radiator in the house froze and broke. The wood floors were a skating rink. They couldn’t fix it until the spring thaw because there was no heat (and they were very busy fixing everyone else’s broken pipes).

The Bad Boy Detector

GrandkidsWhen two of my grandsons were about 3 and 6, they picked at each other and fought constantly. Timeouts and other punishments didn’t change their behavior.

It drove us nuts.

The boys were staying with us, and fighting (as usual) while I made a pizza. Pizzas always set the kitchen smoke alarm off, burnt food is not required when I make pizza, so of course, the smoke alarm started blaring and the boys stopped fighting.

Grandpa is good at making things up and told the boys the noise was from the bad boy detector. He told them if it went off again, they couldn’t watch TV after supper.

They were (almost) angels the rest of the evening, out of fear they’d set off the bad boy detector. We looked at each other and thought “Wow, we gotta use this more often.”

Our smoke detectors are linked – when a detector on one floor goes off, it sets the other detectors off – so it was easy to trigger without the kids noticing. When the boys misbehave, one of us would sneak upstairs and hit the Test button to trigger the alarm.

Unfortunately, kids grow up and just as they learn the Easter Bunny, the Tooth Fairy, and Santa Claus aren’t real, they eventually figured out the bad boy detector was a smoke alarm. 🙁

Oh well, it was great while it lasted.

It finally feels like a normal summer

It’s been a bad summer – between writing a book and my parent’s illness and deaths, the spring and summer has been anything but normal. We didn’t put the gazebo up until almost memorial day and didn’t bother to put up the party lights. The garden was planted late… I had the peppers and zucchini in late May and we finally rushed the tomatoes in the morning Dad went into surgery – I didn’t know when I’d be home again so I stuck them in the wet lumpy soil Phil turned over for me.

Anyway… the kids came over for supper. They said they were going to leave at 8 to take the new baby home, and I was looking forward to a quiet house. It was a pleasant evening, so we had dinner on the deck, a few bottles of wine and the grandkids played in the yard after supper. They played ball while it was still light and didn’t want to go home. Their mom relented, so they tried catching lightening bugs at dusk, and after dark, they played light tag with my pen lights (I got them to give out at shows). I’m glad they stayed longer – I needed the normalcy.

Dumb things kids do part 1

The neighbor kid isn’t the only one who does dumb things… my kids had their share.

We lived in Maine and I went all winter with a cracked windshield because I didn’t want a rock getting kicked into a new windowshield (they used 1/2 inch screens to filter sand and cinders).

So one Friday afternoon in May, I finally had the windshield replaced. Saturday afternoon Phil and Chris played catch in the side yard. Chris threw a ball high and hard… and hit the car… cracking my new windshield. 

His father was not a happy camper. 🙂

If this is the worst thing the kid does…

Our neighbor’s son is about 14 and was riding a dirt bike across the backyard last night.. when he rode his dirt bke straight into the fence. I was afraid Phil would go off on the kid, but he was calm and didn’t say much to the kid.

We had just went outside to look at the lot behind the house after the homeowner’s son spent the entire day clearing the underbrush from the back of the lot, when we saw the kid riding a dirt bike in the backyeard heading straight for the fence. I was wondering when he was going to turn and ride down beside it. Apparently never…  <g>

You know you are old… part 2

When Cece was about 10, she asked for a postage stamp. I dug one out of my stash and she took it back to her room. She came back a few minutes last and asked how to use it.

I usually got the self stick stamps and she had never licked one.

You know you are old…

Year: late 80’s, early 90’s. Chris was about 12 or so. We were at the farmhouse and mom told him to call my sister’s and talk to her kids. He stared at the rotary phone and had no idea how to use it.

Homemade Brownies

One day while all the kids were home, I asked them to make dessert. One kid said she wanted brownies but we didn’t have any mixes. I told her to make them ‘from scratch’. She said it was too much work… so I found a recipe and made a batch, just to show her how easy it was.

They liked it so much they put the recipe on my family recipe website…  

When they were little we never used brownie mizes but I probably never made them much when they were in high school. I’m not big on chocolate and sickening sweet desserts and “if the cook don’t like it, it don’t get made”… I don’t recall making them for at least 10 years.

“I want to go home with grandpa”

It’s spring break time and we went to Chicago to pick up a grandkid for the week. His 2 yr old sister wanted to come home with us and crawled in the car.  So.. she is here for the week… we know who runs the show in that family. <g>

Everything has to be her way. I got her ready for bed… well, I undressed her. She refused to let me help her with her pj’s. I zipped them up, she unzipped them so she could do it herself. We went down stairs to say goodnight to grandpa and he picked her up to carry her to bed. As he started up the stairs she said she wanted to walk up. He put her on the 3rd step. She walked down to the bottom so she could walk all the way up.

My wonderful husband and beautiful kids…

Yes, they are… but this post isn’t about them. 🙂  We often watch Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy after supper and *everyone* has to mention their wonderful husband, beautiful wife, or beautiful kids. Just once, I’d like to hear someone say their spouse or kids are jerks, or at least, not wonderful and beautiful.  Just once.